every ppl got their ANGER! /// 10/29/2010 11:39:00 PM
i brought nov teenages and found this topic attact me. it just like sth about me somehow.
Anger can blind us to reality
sometime ppl can misunderstnad what the other person(s) has said and react negatively to it. it important to clarift what you heard or think you may have heard instead of getting angry. this will help you control emotions. sometimes, ppl can get angry at the most innocent comment made. it might be goosd to stop, seek clarification and then respond. if you have the self-control to act this way, chances are, you will not fly off the handle so easily.
Practice persuation
one of the cleverest ways to control your temper is to practice the art of persuaion .if you can persude ppl to look at things from your point of view, you will be able to turn a possible explosive situation into one where discussion and consensus can be arrived at, ths defusing anger
NEVER LET ANGER INTERFERE WITH YOUR HAPPINESS, PEACE OF MIND AND YOUR ABILITY TO KEEP FRENS
many ppl get angry. if they wont vent theiranger verbally, they sometimes keep it bottled up inside. this can lead to stress, lashing out at an innocent ppl,child,animal orl etting it fester,which resullt in great unhappiness. some ppl have held grudges for years and this greatly redues their ability to live ap eaceful and happy life, dont let this happen to you.
Dont let anger destroy family relationship
some ppl allow anger to take control of then and this has led to sad situations.parents have disinherited children, silbing have ceased to communciate, relatives have ended long, loving relationship, and ppl have left good jobs all because of anger. unresolved anger can destroy one's quality of life.
every ppl got anger and i learning to deal with my anger .
Amanda♥